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REDEEMING CHRISTMAS
Brad Winsted
Have you ever thought about how much of the year is directly or
indirectly affected by the year-end celebrations we call Christmas and
New Year's (grouped together in "season's greetings")? Now that
the reds and greens of the holiday season no longer wait for
Thanksgiving to pass, but quickly move in and push away the oranges and
blacks of Halloween, and can easily extend into mid-January, it turns
out that as much as 20 percent of our year is taken up by this season.
If you are like me, you quickly get tired of all the garishness and
commercialism of the holidays, yet put up with it, longing for simpler
times when family and friends would gather around Christmas trees and
sing carols by the crackling fire.
It shouldn't come as a big surprise that much of this season is
anything but Christian, even though Christmas is celebrated by most
Christians. Christmas was imposed on the Christian world by an act of
the Roman emperor Constantine in the fourth century. After Constantine's
conversion, he wanted nothing to do with the celebration of Saturnalia
and the winter solstice of late December, where for many days the pagans
would celebrate until the days started becoming longer again. For
a superstitious bunch of people, this was very important, and the
revelry and debauchery of that celebration would not readily be given up
by the officially "converted" pagans of ancient Rome. A quick
compromise was in order, and the celebration of Christ's birth was
superimposed on the pagan holiday.
Nowhere in the Bible are believers called upon to celebrate Christ's
birth. His resurrection, yes, "this is done every Sunday", but not
his birth. Can you see why the Puritans were "down" on this holiday and
prohibited the celebration of it? So what has happened? Why is it
that even in most non-Christian nations, "merry Christmases" are happily
exchanged?
Most everyone loves a party, and thus Christmas became linked
happily with the celebrations at the end of the year to form an
elongated period in the Christian calendar. If Advent is added to
Nativity and Epiphany, we easily end up with six weeks. Through it
all, the shopping, the presents, Santa, parties, frivolity, and
vacations can take away all or most of the significance of God's coming
to earth as mortal man.
So what should a believer do? Christmas is clearly one of
those days that can be ignored without incurring God's displeasure.
Should we "pass it by" because of the irreligious activities that
dominate it in the lives of others? (I asked the same thing about
Halloween a few weeks ago, and I believe that this day can also be
redeemed," but that will have to await another article.)
How We Redeem Christmas
Right after my wife and I were married, we decided to try to insure
that everything we did would somehow bring glory to God. Christmas was
included. So we looked at our practices and decided that some aspects of
traditional Christmas observance would go and others would stay. For
instance:
(1) The Christmas tree (which probably had pagan origins in northern
Europe) became a "Jesse tree," the family tree of Christ. We
decided to add a family-made symbol to it every day, pointing to the
coming of Christ. So after a few days it sports an ark, Joseph's
coat, David's harp, and lots of other Old Testament symbols.
Believe me, your neighbors will want to have some explanation,
especially when these are the only symbols on the tree. This culminates
on Christmas morning, when the "chi and rho" symbol of Christ as Savior
is placed on top. (NOTE: CMI has two products to help you with your
own JESSE TREE.
(2) Santa Claus had to go. Too many divine attributes are given to
him: omniscience (he knows who is naughty or nice), omnipresence
(all homes are visited on the same night), spiritual transcendence (he
is able to get into your home), omnipotence (he acts as the judge of
all), etc. We didn't want our children to reject the One who truly
has these attributes as being make-believe, like Santa.
(3) Christmas cards became an opportunity to present the gospel
clearly, especially the need for a Savior. So the snowy Christmas
scenes gave way to a family-designed card depicting spiritual truths.
Its becoming so easy to send "customized" Christmas cards with real
biblical messages of hope and salvation in the "Incarnation" of God to
man.
(4) Carols and Christmas Eve services became opportunities to share
Christ with our neighbors. Unbelievers will listen to Scripture and
Christmas hymns at this time of year, so make the most of it! Your
neighbors would really appreciate (even if they are unbelievers) your
going over and singing Christmas carols and bringing some Christmas
cookies to them. This is a great time for hospitality.
(5) Now about gift-giving (I know many of you are asking, "How did
they get around this one?"): clearly the greed and anticipation of
getting something can overshadow the indescribable gift of Christ,
especially for children. So we don't give gifts on Christmas Eve or
Christmas Day. Instead, we use those times to have friends over
and share a meal with them. Early on Christmas morning, I act out
the Christmas story with hand puppets. I would have thought that this
would get a little corny for my teenagers, but they still love it and
look forward to it! Our living room is transformed into a little
Christmas playhouse almost instantaneously. And as for the gifts,
they get passed around on Epiphany (celebrating the coming of the Wise
Men) in mid-January. And that way we get to take advantage of the
post-Christmas sales!
A Warning!
There is a warning that comes with the above. Both my wife's
parents and my parents were not excited about our efforts to reform
their cherished holiday symbols (trashing Santa, reindeer, secular
songs, Christmas cards, gifts on Christmas morning, the reading of " 'Twas
the Night before Christmas," etc.). And the perception of arrogance and
self-righteousness on our part probably didn't help much, either.
Family traditions are "sacred" rites for many people... change them at
your own peril, and do so only very carefully!
This is just the beginning of the way we have
attempted to "redeem" this day for the Lord and add a godly tradition to
our family. If you have some ideas, please let me know (my e-mail
address is childrensministry1@earthlink.net).
You must put Christ first in Christmas, if you decide to celebrate
it, or else the world will hand you a big "season's greetings" devoid of
Jesus Christ.
Brad Winsted is Director of Children's Ministry International. He
and his wife Fawn live in Atlanta, GA and have 8 children and three
grand-children.
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